tunstall birdman
Striker
How's that?She thinks you're gay
Nee way!
Ohh and what's the shock for about my age?
f***ing young at heart me mate!'Fraid so!
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How's that?She thinks you're gay
Nee way!
f***ing young at heart me mate!'Fraid so!
Hew Grandad you coming out with The Pirates next fridayWas 33
Only a year older than you kidda
Also late fortys
Divent look a day ower 40
Well you don't look it'Fraid so!
I've started making a list of things
I took for granted before I had kids:
1) everything
2) literally every little thing
The list will no doubt be added to.
I'm saving upHew Grandad you coming out with The Pirates next friday
Aye it will not be like a cheap night in the Empire @davoak taking us clubbing in durham afterwardsI'm saving up
We're in exactly the same situation except I'm 44 and the Mrs is 43. We both want another but I'm hardly pulling out all the stops to make it happen. I'm asleep by 8.30 on the couch most nights.Anyone done this ?
Our lass (no) is 40 and I'm approaching 39 and we have one kid, little girl, who is 3 and a half. We have chatted about having another one, I tend to feel a tad guilty as our daughter sits and plays on her own and asks to see her cousins all the time. Plus I've always wanted 2 kids. It would be a push financially also.
I'm in two minds still, slightly swaying to having another one. Anyone been through this ?
3) Money in your pocket, the little draining shites.
University education for the grand bairns wont be cheap!!!I'm saving up
University education for the grand bairns wont be cheap!!!
It's not and when they start to drive and buying carsUniversity education for the grand bairns wont be cheap!!!
It may be worth reading the current research about older mothers and fathers and the increasing number of Autistic spectrum children born to them. Obviously there are other risks such as Down's syndrome.
It was recommended the other day that men should have their sperm frozen when they are eighteen and women should freeze their eggs before they reach thirty.
If you are unfortunate enough to have a child with disabilities you need to consider if your health will stand up to caring for them well into your sixties and seventies. There's a lot to think about.
Hope I'm still buckin when am that owld likeI was pushing 50 and the mrs was 47 when we had our 2nd. No regrets, they have a great life, just go for it
We had our first when I was 35, had two more since then, I think it's good to do it when you're a bit older. Primarily because you've got most of the shite out of the way that you "think you're missing" once your life gets turned upside down with them!!
I thought late 30s was old, but I'm one of the younger Dads at the bairns school, most of the parents are mid 40s...
As with anything if you want to go for it then go for it, I wouldn't let anyone on a forum talk you into, or out of, anything (especially not this forum, it's full of f***ing mentalists!).
Personally I probably wouldn't want a kid at that age but that's purely a personal thing (and I'll be honest, it's just me being selfish). Always wanted to have a bairn and so I was chuffed to bits when the missus gave me my first child last year. I was 29 and she was 28. I wouldn't change it for the world but I do find I miss having my own life! Going for nights out with my missus (and more importantly my mates) are a rare occurrence now. I can't afford to spend money on myself, holidays will be expensive due to out of term time prices and again, when we get there you can't just relax and do what you want, you've got a bairn to look after and have to do what it wants.
That's been hard to get used to but I knew it was coming and like I say I wouldn't change it. What it has done though is make me realise that I like time to myself, I like being able to do what I want, when I want and I feel I've got a lot of life to live yet. I'll happily dedicate the next twenty years to bringing the bairn up but I'm also glad that when he's an adult and standing on his own two feet, moving out etc, I'll still be young enough at 49 to do some things just for myself. I'm sure he'll still be expensive like but if I'm making a decent wage I'll be able to go abroad when I want, go where I want, do what I want, go to away games again and all that kind of stuff. Hopefully I'll still have a good few years left.
So for me, I'd find 40 a bit late, by the time the bairn has grown up I'd be in my 60s and I'd feel restricted in terms of time left in my life to live for me. But again, that's because I have a selfish streak. Maybe there's nothing you'd rather do in your 50s than bring up a kid and fair play if that's your opinion, it's your choice, go for it.
Are you me? My first also at just before 35, third just before I was 40. Don't feel old at school gates. In fact I'd have loved four but just too old now (44). Forget the money. It's priceless.
Don't take this the wrong way but it's a bit me, me, me!
Your lad is only young, wait until he gets older and you are watching him playing cricket/rugby/football. My middle boy (7) is my best mate - loves Sunderland, knows more foreign players than me and can't wait for Euro 2016!