I suppose a 3some is out of the question then?Obviously I meant I couldn't fuck someone else whilst I was seeing/dating/shagging another person
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I suppose a 3some is out of the question then?Obviously I meant I couldn't fuck someone else whilst I was seeing/dating/shagging another person
Ha haI suppose a 3some is out of the question then?
Sorry!! Couldn't resistHa ha
Obviously I meant I couldn't fuck someone else whilst I was seeing/dating/shagging another person
1) post 1551) Where did I say "people doing what they want is an American import"?
2) I didn't say you found it strange, I expressed my personal opinion that it's strange.
What the fuck?
I've done:
Dating > bucking > girlfriend
Bucking > dating > girlfriend
Friends > bucking
Bucking
Friends
It seems like people these days pretend they have no intention of having sex with the person they're going out with, which is a lie. Pathetic.
Same marra.
You say people doing what they want is a new culture brought in from America,that was your point i think? i don't think it is, the Yanks are more for ritual and formality than us i'd say
i found nothing strange in the OP you seemed to go with Seb
Yeah i was going to add the obvious contrast there will be depending on location as the cities move at incredible rates and the backwaters plod.I Just dont find anything strange in the behaviour,its not the norm but thats just us,maybe its with kids staying at home longer and longer the relationships stay at a sort of halfy half status,i cant imagine being 30 going steady and living with my mother!Certainly not comparing the places I've lived. The dating culture I encountered in England was either fuckbuddies or committed relationships with not much in between. It's been 5 years or so though and that was only one city, so I don't know how well it generalizes to the entire country, just as your statement about the Yanks may be accurate in certain places (more conservative areas) but certainly isn't in the big cities on the coasts. Where I've lived in the U.S. while of dating age it's pretty much as described as in the OP for a lot of tiresome people nowadays.
That's wrong I couldn't even date another person let alone fuck them, I would feel to bad
1) post 155
2)I'm in the "it isnt strange" camp from my 1st reply to OP ,You are in the "it is strange" hence we're having an exchange of views
In a nutshell i dont see owt in the first post that is new (google perhaps) and certainly nothing we've suddenly picked up from the states
Yeah i was going to add the obvious contrast there will be depending on location as the cities move at incredible rates and the backwaters plod.I Just dont find anything strange in the behaviour,its not the norm but thats just us,maybe its with kids staying at home longer and longer the relationships stay at a sort of halfy half status,i cant imagine being 30 going steady and living with my mother!
Eh! do you think some dumb lass has taken all that nothingness of that paragraph in and is following its precise method? seriously?Post 155 is in response the statement that people can do what or whom they want unless otherwise stated, which is clearly not just "people doing what they want" but a clear copy of the American dating convention, or in fact the big city / New York dating convention about assuming you're non-exclusive. That is a recent import to the UK, and as such it's not likely that everyone would assume non-exclusive dating like they do over there and I bet not everyone is being open about it.
That's not the same as saying British men were always only one woman men in the past or that I'm expecting everyone to act like they're married.
Horrible bastardDear me I'm only 34 but I'm pleased I've been out of "the dating game" for 10 years now. I couldn't be bothered with that shit.
One of my mates is single, the fact he's bi sexual makes his dates a minefield.
I suppose it probably is difficult telling a lass you like it up the chuffer as well as shagging women
There's no problem that was a sweeping statement when I said 'that's just wrong' that's was just in my opinion, I just wouldn't feel comfortable myself doing that.Why?
I'm not sure what the problem is here. A girl has dates with several men, most will be one offs, some will be a few dates and hopefully one will become exclusive. Where's the problem?
Unless people are saying that it is only permissible to date one person at a time then why is it wrong, provided that everything is above board? And everyone knows where they stand.
The alternative is that you are exclusive to one person from when you start dating them until one or other dumps the other. Which seems like a waste of time to me.
As for sex, one would imagine that both are using some discretion in this situation and taking precautions against disease and pregnancy.
Eh! do you think some dumb lass has taken all that nothingness of that paragraph in and is following its precise method? seriously?
We're dissecting shagging protocol into wording now! All seb said in 155 is unless you agree with who you're are seeing you cant see anyone else its open season.That has not just appeared on these shores
Unless youre shagging two or three as well.if a lass said to me she was 'dating' someone else as well as seeing me she'd be dumped that second. you'd have to be a right mug to put up with that imo.
I think for the most part this is the norm either side of the pond but i dont find it strange that not everyone follows it.Aye it has. It's always been more common to assume that if you're seeing someone, you're not seeing anyone else. The assumption of the exact opposite is a US import.