Either that or the gender equivalent of Ali G, Allison G the eunuchI should have asked this before but are you a lass?
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Either that or the gender equivalent of Ali G, Allison G the eunuchI should have asked this before but are you a lass?
f***ing hell, Oldie, that is smooth as silk.I should have asked this before but are you a lass?
Why ever not ?
Hounding men who don't understand them has worked for women for millennia.
It's called equality in the 21st century..
I would hope so. But I'm not seeing it.I think we can all do better than this.
I'm so sorry, mate. I hope you've managed to find a way to manage your depression. I've never actually attempted suicide, but I do the 'suicide ideation' thing almost every day. People who've never had full on clinical depression will never understand just how terrible it is. I stay alive because I'm lucky enough to have family who love me, including my Shih Tzus - my furry little comedians! If I was alone, I'd 100% have done away with myself.I think they need more help,
I made two genuine attempts on my life when I was younger one was an overdose where I was found by a stranger down the river and the other I tried to hang myself and the rope snapped.
It’s brushed under the carpet by many and it’s sad to see.
More help is needed will they give it probably not anytime soon.
But she’s not saying “but women”. She’s lieterally written a book called What About Men? She’s literally doing the opposite of saying “but women”. She’s actively looking at the issue and trying to solve it.That she argues that even though they have it better off than most they have a perception that they don’t.
I’m saying that what really turns blokes off is that when they need a bit of support they’re met with this ‘but women /etc’ attitude. It’s not at all relevant to respond that one demographic is better or worse off than another.
And perhaps that’s the issue here. We determine outcomes based on metrics that we measure and they’re not the metrics that are important to the men ending up listening to Tate. The fact that we’re talking about make suicide is proof of this. Mem certainly don’t have an advantage there.My question would be a philosophical one. What metrics determine what a better or easier life is? Surely it depends what people value in life and want to get out of life?
Society seems to have determined the ability to progress up the corporate ladder and live free from the risk of racial prejudice = social nirvana
What is this cancer in society?I would hope so. But I'm not seeing it.
There is a cancer in society. Bucknuts like Fox and charlatans like Tate will continue to prod it until either it is cured or the patient dies.
That she argues that even though they have it better off than most they have a perception that they don’t.
I’m saying that what really turns blokes off is that when they need a bit of support they’re met with this ‘but women /etc’ attitude. It’s not at all relevant to respond that one demographic is better or worse off than another.
I can see a situation where a combination of the language used around feminism (and other isms) & some grifters praying on young/easily lead people has made them feel left behind. But maybe that deosn't matter, just the fact they feel marginalised is the problem. perception is reality etc.She was approached by boys who reckoned that feminism has left them behind and their belief was they are now the minority and oppressed. She says it’s that kind of belief that lets people like Tate in.
Sounds a bit like femsplaining to me. Ridiculous of course , shes only trying to help im sureBut she’s not saying “but women”. She’s lieterally written a book called What About Men? She’s literally doing the opposite of saying “but women”. She’s actively looking at the issue and trying to solve it.
I can see a situation where a combination of the language used around feminism (and other isms) & some grifters praying on young/easily lead people has made them feel left behind. But maybe that deosn't matter, just the fact they feel marginalised is the problem. perception is reality etc.
as a loosly related side point - I think there is an issue around language used for movements or campaign groups these days which causes them more problems than it solves
We all agree with hounding someone is wrong.So, the answer to male mental health issues is to hound women who don't understand them?
Interesting this psychotherapy business
Well you’ve read it so I’ll bow to your knowledge, but in that microcosm where you boiled it down men have the perception that they’re less well off when they’re really better off than most is not true to any great extent. It’s simply that any suggestion of support for white, heterosexual men is met with an appalling level of ‘but women/black people/gay people/trans people’.But she’s not saying “but women”. She’s lieterally written a book called What About Men? She’s literally doing the opposite of saying “but women”. She’s actively looking at the issue and trying to solve it.
And perhaps that’s the issue here. We determine outcomes based on metrics that we measure and they’re not the metrics that are important to the men ending up listening to Tate. The fact that we’re talking about make suicide is proof of this. Mem certainly don’t have an advantage there.
But again, I’d recommend Invisible Women to answer this question. The works is male by default but the issue Moran highlights is that many men/boys simply dont recognise that -we need to understand why and fix the perception. And fix the bit where men aren’t winning too.
I read the postHave you read the book? Cos I have and I don’t recognise what you’re saying there.
We all agree with hounding someone is wrong.
But let's not getting away from the many topic. An alarming number of men are taking their own lives. There's something wrong in the system and in society. There is a lot of ignorance out there towards men's mental health. Ava Evans showed that when she had that brain fart on TV.
I think you’ll find you’re actually agreeing with what Moran is saying.It’s simply that any suggestion of support for white, heterosexual men is met with an appalling level of ‘but women/black people/gay people/trans people’.
So while I’m sure that there’s more to the author’s postulation than just this but in that microcosm it sounds like the problem with men is that they incorrectly perceive they’re worse off than other groups. Women (like the subject of this thread) who are hostile towards men’s issues can hardly complain when men decide to stop caring about women’s issues and follow the likes of Tate.
Ok, well I've actually read the book, and it's a good faith attempt at explaining issues men today face, and where those issues often have the same root cause as issues women face. Some of it is a bit simplistic, but there's no "but women" about it.I read the post
You’ve not read it either have you?Ooof
What About Men? by Caitlin Moran review – bantz gone bad
A tendentious take on masculinity that takes unoriginal thoughts and confirms them in the echo chamber of Twitterwww.google.com
You’ve not read it either have you?
The book.The article? Aye. The book has been rinsed.
Here’s another review from the same paper a day earlier.The article? Aye. The book has been absolutely rinsed